26 Juin 10. When you ask about cheating, your partner deflects and avoids
6. An altered schedule.
When your significant other - who never once worked late - suddenly needs to work late, and that starts to happen more and more frequently, they may be lying. If your spouse has never been away on a business trip and suddenly finds a need to travel for work, that could be a sign that they are having weekend getaways with an affair partner. Flat tires, dead batteries, traffic jams, spending extra time at the gym, and similar excuses for being late or absent altogether might also signal infidelity. A cheating partner might also suddenly be forgetful about picking up the kids, birthdays and other important events, etc.
7. Friends seem uncomfortable around you.
With infidelity, you, the betrayed partner, are nearly always the last person to find out. The cheater's friends often know about the infidelity right from the start, and your own friends are likely to find out long before you do. This knowledge typically causes these individuals to feel uncomfortable around you. The cheater's friends might try to avoid you or to be overly nice to you. Your own friends may try to avoid conversations about your relationship, and they might overcompensate by being extra nice.
8. Unexplained expenses.
If there are odd charges on your partner's credit cards, or there is suddenly less money in your or your partner's bank accounts, retirement accounts, investment accounts, etc., that's a possible sign of infidelity.